Monday 8 December 2014

How To Meet Your Online Nintendo Fanatic Friends Offline

By Claudine Hodges


For gamers, it is only a given for them to join groups that will allow them to contact those who got the same hobbies. This is only a given if they want to know some tips or cheats regarding the game that they are playing. They can enjoy a lot of things when they are accepted in an online group for the game that they love.

The said online group is certainly more active the more gamers there are who participate with the conversation. You can meet a lot of Nintendo fanatic there. If you are a fan of this game yourself, you will surely end up with more and more friends. It is the best outlet that you can use to indulge yourself in your hobby.

When you are comfortable with the group, you might be asked to attend an IRL meeting. This is the meeting where you have to meet up with the friends you met in the online group. If you are about to attend an IRL meeting, then here are some of the tips you can follow to make the experience pleasant.

First, only agree to meet up with your online friends in a public place. Even if you have already talked with this online friend for a long time, this person is still a stranger to you. Thus, take the time to get to know this online friend in person. Try the local restaurant as a public place to meet up.

It is oftentimes okay to bring a friend when the meeting is held. Of course, you might ask for permission from the administrator of the meeting if you really want to bring a friend with you. When you bring a friend, you should be able to keep yourself considerably safe.

Of course, it is only normal to expect your online friend to not be creepy. These friends will also expect you to not be creepy. That is why, you should learn to wrap up the creepiness. Basically, you just have to watch your manner and avoid giving off an impression that you are a creepy person.

You can rely on your instincts when making a decision as to whether or not you will attend an IRL meeting. When you feel like the person online is creeping you out and he or she asks you to meet up IRL, then you can simply say no. Do not be afraid to offend them since they do not really know you.

Do your own research. If someone has asked to meet up with you in real life, you have to get to know a little bit about them. Try to know some things about this person beforehand. This should allow you to determine whether or not this person is a weirdo. What you learn about this person can also be a conversation starter.

You have to be wary of the things you talk about with this person. Try to keep your personal issues personal. Do not expose yourself too much to the people you just met for the first time. Try to keep the topic at a level that is okay to share.




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