Tuesday 5 June 2018

Ways Of Communicating With Your Husband Hard Of Hearing

By Nancy Walker


Sometimes, we take for granted our ability to do normal things like speaking, hearing or seeing or even touching. Some people live very difficult lives and have to find ways of passing messages. Luckily, for people who do not hear, they can be taught how to communicate in sign language. However, there are other ways if a person did not always have this problem. Below are some of the effective methods to communicate to your husband hard of hearing.

Get the attention of the person before you begin to speak. For a person with hearing problems, it takes a lot of concentrating in order to follow a conversation. Therefore, tap them to show them that you want to talk to them and that way, they will not have a difficult time trying to understand what you will be talking about.

Sometimes when you speak, a person may not be able to understand you. Therefore, you need to be facing them so that they are able to read your lips and fill I the blanks of what they could not understand. As you face them, avoid habits like chewing, moving around and covering your mouth while you are talking.

The hearing aid only controls the loudness of what you are saying. If you, therefore, want to be heard, it is best you try enunciating in your speech. Apart from enunciating, make sure that you speak at a steady pace. This allows the listening party time to try and read your lips and process what is being said. Too slow maybe useless as it may be hard to gather what is being said.

Pick a quiet place. As mentioned before, hearing aids magnify the noise rather than clearing it up. So if you are going out go to one of the quiet and peaceful restaurants, or pick a corner booth with good lighting. At home, you should try to minimize the noise like turning down the AC and putting off the music when you speak.

Many are times while groups of friend decide to spend time together. In such a case, be mindful of the person who has difficulty hearing. Make sure that you are in a well light place and the person can hear whatever it is you are saying. Make sure you take turns in speaking otherwise it will be quite hard for them to get what is being said.

At times, you may be needed to repeat saying something a few times before they get it. Sometimes the words you use may prove difficult for them to understand and it is at that point that you will need to rephrase your sentence. If all of that still does not work, try spelling out the first few letters of the difficult word.

You want the person to be comfortable around you. When you have a hard time understanding each other, you can look at the positive side and make fun of it. This will make you more comfortable with each other.




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